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Writer's pictureSolape Adetutu Adeyemi

Goodbye My Narcissist

by Solape Adetutu Adeyemi


Image of a dandelion blowing away.
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So, I just got tired of walking around you on tiptoes

Bowing to your every need…and wants

Being careful not to talk in public, anything to avoid your cold smiles which never reach the eyes

You told me several times that I do not have the necessary poise and brains to talk in public

I got tired of you telling me what to do

Giving me unsolicited advice on how to live my life

Seeing as you’re perfection itself

I got tired of starving myself to continuously be a size 8

Which to you is the perfect size for a lady

I couldn’t stand the condemning yet sarcastic gleam in your eyes when I dared go for a second helping

I got tired of hiding my belly handles in girdles which were constantly trying to separate my chest from my waist!

I got so fed up with you criticising and belittling me with your caustic words

Oh, you’re so good at drawing blood from my heart like a surgeon's scalpel with your casually spoken, hurtful words

I got tired of being your robot, your shadow

I got fed up with being your lifeless doll

And as I bid you goodbye, with freedom and my self-esteem, within my grasp

I wonder why the heck I allowed you to run and ruin my person?


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Solape Adetutu Adeyemi

Solape Adetutu Adeyemi is a dedicated professional with a Bachelor's degree in Microbiology and a Master's in Environmental Management. She is a researcher, a passionate environmental sustainability enthusiast and a talented award-winning creative writer, with her works published in esteemed journals and magazines, including Writenow Literary Journal, TV Metro, Poetry Marathon Anthology, the Guardian newspaper, and the Indiana Review among others.

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